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Here you both participate in chores and do so rightfully as any relationship takes the energy of two people. Marriage is all about dividing chores. No more will you have to clean the apartment from top to bottom alone; not that you did pre-marriage, though. No longer will you have to be the only one who sorts the recycling and takes out the garbage. There will also be the small tasks of bill paying and other miscellaneous shopping that needs attending to, but rest assured that you will be using the buddy system and life feels good again, finally.

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The silent age is gone and should you steal away a little quiet time for yourself, cherish it as if it were gold itself. Marriage is not like in the movies or even like in your head. And it will push you further into insanity and back again, it will push you to the brink of life as you know it. And good luck.

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