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Of particular note were answers to the question: Men are meant to be men! In any case it became apparent that there was frustration from one side of the group! Over the same time period, the normal experience for a Christian man was to go on dates with two to three Christian women, but only one from their own congregation. People making too big a deal out of going on a date. There was clearly a lack of dating occurring. Having grown up in the church myself I certainly could understand and identify with many of the Need a good one guy already made and yes, I have been on a few dates too.

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During interviews, I discovered that women felt there was in fact a lot of unofficial dating occurring. Likewise, in an interview, Emily said that her only experience of dating within the church congregation involved three months one-on-one time with a guy, but without ever making it official.

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Why kne women feel that men inside the church were leading them on without ever committing to a relationship? Why was there a high level of emotional intimacy but a lack of official dating? And why were some women feeling as though Christian men were more keen for sex before marriage than non-Christian men?

Intwo sociologists, Marcia Guttentag and Paul Secord, had noticed a similar pattern among other groups with gender ratio imbalances. Here, as we were finding in the church, there was a very low level of commitment, a low level of official dating, but a very high level of emotional and physical intimacy.

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Although a taboo in many Christian circles, over 45 per cent of women and 42 per cent of men in our study said they would consider dating a non-Christian. The advantages of this approach Need a good one guy two-fold. Firstly, in a church culture where women Neev often discouraged from making the first move see our review on Christian dating literature an an online platform allows women to take more initiative and to have more agency.

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