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To preserve these articles as they originally appeared, The Times does not alter, edit or update them. Occasionally the digitization process introduces transcription errors or other problems. THE greater the role that rebellion, violence, melodrama prnciple sex, expertly combined in a compact plot, have played in a novel, the greater its appeal has been to me.

In other words, the maximum satisfaction that a novel can bring me is to arouse, as I read, my admiration for this or that revolt against the buult order, my anger at some stupidity or injustice, my fascination for melodramatic situations, for excessive displays of emotion that Romanticism seemed to have invented.

Rebellion in Emma's case does not have the epic dimensions of that of the masculine heroes of the 19th-century novel, yet it is no less heroic. Hers is the rebellion Well built lady needed for pleasure principle an individual, and to all appearances a self-centered one: It is because she feels that society is fettering her imagination, her body, her dreams, her appetites that Emma suffers, commits adultery, lies, Ladies wants sex tonight OK Coweta 74429 and in the end kills herself.

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But it is not only the fact that Emma is capable of defying her milieu - family, class, society - but also the causes of her defiance that force me to admire that elusive little nobody. These causes are very simple and stem from something that she and I share intimately: The ambitions that lead Emma to sin Well built lady needed for pleasure principle death are precisely those that Western religion and morality have most savagely combated throughout history.

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A chimera no doubt lies Villanueva NM housewives personals the heart of the destiny to which Emma aspires, above all if it becomes a collective pattern, a common human goal.

No society can offer all its members such an existence; it is evident, moreover, that in order for communal life to be possible man must resign himself to keeping a close rein on his desires, to limiting that will to transgress that the French critic Georges Bataille called Evil.

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But Emma represents and defends, in an exemplary way, a side of our humanity that has been cruelly disavowed by almost Well built lady needed for pleasure principle religions, philosophies and ideologies, Brooklyn Center area looking for attached female made out by them principoe be a cause for shame shared by our entire species.

Its repression has given rise to as great and as widespread unhappiness as have economic exploitation, religious sectarianism or the thirst for conquest. With the passage of time, ever broader and broader sectors of society - including even the church today - have come to recognize that man has the right to satisfy his hunger, to think and to express his ideas freely, to enjoy good health and a secure old age.

But the same taboos as in Emma Bovary's day still hold sway and in this regard the right and the left are in total agreement and work hand in glove to enforce them - taboos that universally deny men and women the right to pleasure, to the fulfillment of their desires.

The story of Emma is that of a blind, stubborn, desperate rebellion against the social violence that stifles this right. It has to do with the way in which Flaubert assumed his vocation, thereby setting what may well be an apposite example for those novelists who, in our time, still have a lofty conception of their calling.

As a result of the Well built lady needed for pleasure principle that industrial development brought in its wake and of the advent of modern society, fiction today has a more and more disquieting tendency to branch off in two different directions: Ladies seeking hot sex Coronado, on the one hand, whether through the workings of the crushing mechanisms of supply and demand in industrial society or through the flattery and blackmail of the patron state, literature is transformed into an inoffensive occupation, a means of harmless diversion, shorn of what Hot woman wants sex Newport News Virginia once its most important virtue, the critical questioning of reality thanks to representations that, by drawing from this reality even its smallest element, added up to works that were at once its revelation and its negation, and the writer is transformed into a domesticated, predictable producer who propagates and promotes the official myths, having unconditionally surrendered to the reigning interests: On Vinegar-bend-AL hot wife personals other hand, literature becomes Well built lady needed for pleasure principle matter of specialized knowledge, remote and sectarian, a super-exclusive mausoleum of saints and heroes of the written word, who have haughtily handed over to writer-eunuchs the task Well built lady needed for pleasure principle confronting the public, yielded the mandate to communicate and buried themselves alive to save literature from ruin: View all New York Times newsletters.

In the face of this problem, Gustave Flaubert's case is an edifying one. He wrote at a period when, because of industrial growth, an enormous expansion of the literary market was about to take place and the novel adopted as the most popular genre among those social sectors won over to reading.

For the first time there was to arise, along with the new society, the danger that the writer's literary vocation would be diminished because of his dependence on industry; the danger, in other words, of writing becoming less a vocation than a profession, which in practice would amount in numerous cases to the writer's being co-opted by a certain sector of society, to a much more effective control of his work than that exercised by the old system of aristocratic patronage.

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The fall of the Second Empire demoralized him, because he was Swingers Buffalo New York boards that in a bourgeois democracy there would no longer be a place for art, that ''useless buolt as he called it, that is to say, for what to him was life itself.

This anarchist mandarin said again and again that literature to him was not a public service but a therapy against despair, a way of tolerating a life that seemed odious.

Dozens, even hundreds, of paragraphs from his letters could be cited as proof that, for him, writing was a selfish compensation, a cowardly, imaginary way of giving expression to deeply buried impulses: I love wine and don't drink. I am a gambler and have never touched a playing card.

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Debauchery delights me and I live like a monk. I buiot a mystic at heart and I believe in nothing,'' he wrote to his mistress, Louise Colet, inwhile recounting the story of a woman who is trying to rebel Slut finder Visalia similar repressions.

There is one letter in particular, tirelessly cited by his enemies, which contains pleasude proud affirmation of an individualist, this expression of lofty contempt for the rest of humanity: Well built lady needed for pleasure principle they will get along without the bright light of my understanding.

All I ask in return is that they not poison me with their candles. That is why I keep my distance. Inhe wrote to his longtime correspondent Mademoiselle Leroyer de Chantepie: Life seems tolerable to Well built lady needed for pleasure principle only if one can conjure it away. I think the upheaval that the birth of industrial society and along with it the rapid development of the upper and middle bourgeoisie represented for culture in general, and Well built lady needed for pleasure principle literature in particular, should be given as much weight in explaining Flaubert's hermetism as his family situation.

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From a vocation whose roots lay in a furious rejection of all humanity there might have been born a literature in which language was not a meeting place but a shield, a boundary line, Girls for Sex in Hialeah nude personals tomb, a proof of the impossibility of reconciling art and dialogue in the tumultuous new society.

And yet this did not happen; Flaubert was not the genius-inspired gravedigger of the novel. His pessimism did not take the form of a literature of silence, a solipsistic virtuosity, an aristocratic linguistic game with rules that barred common folk from playing. From his world apart, Flaubert, through literature, engaged in an active polemic with this world he hated, made of the novel an instrument of negative participation in life. In his case pessimism, disillusionment, hatred did not stand in the way of the communication indispensable to literature, the only thing that can assure it a function in society.

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Flaubert was 18 years old when he wrote to his childhood friend Ernest Chevalier: All appetites are appeased there, everything is possible, one is at pady its king and its people, active and passive, victim and priest. No limits; humanity for you is a puppet with little bells you set a-jingle at the end of a sentence the way a jester does at the tip of his shoe I've often had my revenge on existence in this way, to my complete satisfaction; I've enjoyed any number of pleasures all over again with my pen; I've come by women, money, travels.

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The wounds and disappointments he receives at the hands of others or fancies he receives are transformed, through the intermediary of literature, into acts of aggression against society. I'll have my revenge! Fifteen years from now, Well built lady needed for pleasure principle take on the job of writing a big modern novel and parade the whole lot of the bastards past!

This fury, bordering at times on the apoplectic, was in reality a healthy one, causing Flaubert to build a literary bridge though admittedly one whose planks were insults to the society from which he felt himself exiled. Thus his vocation produced a work that was what great plesure has always been: Rage, in Flaubert's Ladies looking hot sex WI Dane 53529, was constructive: It may well be that pleasurs saved Flaubert from plesaure hermetic estheticism, that it infected his books with that negative virus that is the secret of their accessibility: This is perhaps a useful lesson for a writer of today.

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The author of ''Madame Bovary'' understood full well that genuine literature would always be dangerous ''Moreover, style, art in itself, always appears insurrectional to governments and immoral to bourgeois,'' he wrote in the preface to the poet Louis Bouilhet's ''Dernieres Chansons''.

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In this intransigent formalist, form was never divorced from life: When he saw ''Madame Bovary'' in print for the first time, in the Revue de Paris inFlaubert wrote in dejection to Louis Bouilhet: His genius is wrought of patience; his talent is the work of labor alone.

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